Always say what you mean and not what you don’t.
If the lives of your friends seem always to be moving faster and more smoothly than yours, remember that the cure for this misconception (as with most misconceptions) is simply to listen more.
Buy yourself flowers whenever you please.
Plan a way to balance work and relationships and sleep and books and church and time to clean the bathroom. When you fail at balancing and fall on your face in the mud, which I promise you will, calmly get up and try again. It’s worth it.
Gas and plane tickets are expensive, but they’re also worth it.
Notice when the sun comes out.
Stock up on spices.
Take it as a compliment when people think you’re older than you are and take it as a compliment when people think you’re younger than you are. This way you will get lots of compliments.
Thank your parents often.
Find at least two convenient, reasonably-priced restaurants you really like. This will come in handy when people want to “Get lunch and catch up.”
If you make a habit of accepting responsibility, others will trust you.
Indulge your eight-year-old self by unclogging blocked drains with baking soda and vinegar.
Guard good friendships with your life. They get more precious every year.
Be decisive. It will make you feel good.
Change your oil regularly.
Accept that some adults never outgrow their childhood meanness. Be kind, but wear armor.
If you ever begin to feel played-out, as if every thought you think is something you have thought before, just read something new. The world is a big place and you can never truly run out of fresh spaces to live in and dream in, even if that living is vicarious.
There is a good chance that most of your greatest fears about yourself are quite true. But be certain that they are entirely insignificant in the face of God’s vast, unending grace.